Ashley'Nicole

Rollin’ through the emotions everyday.

That can not be the case in a relationship. You have to continue to feed the fire or eventually it will die. You can not rely on past efforts to determine your future. You are responsible for that now. She will appreciate your consistancy. Make an effort is all it takes. Take a minute to surprise her at her house just to say hi. Spend $10 on flowers. Listen to what she wants and twist it around and do it for her. It will make the WORLD of difference in your relationship. Any girl will tell you she needs reassurance sometimes and without it, no matter how in love you are, she will start questioning. I can promise you that. Avoid it. It’s truly not hard. Don’t souly base your relationship through your phone or social networking. Go out of your way to show her you appreciate her. We don’t expect elaborate gifts or all your time, we simply want to know you are thinking about us and we’re worth your time.

 Girls; They do what ever they will to bring attention to themselves. I now remember why I only have a SELECT few of friends who are girls.

• Why would you go out of your way to contact your ex-boyfriends family? Close all ties. That’s what you do. Especially if you have a boyfriend AND your ex HAS a girlfriend. If not, you haven’t totally moved on. You don’t continue to make an impression on them. No, YOU MOVE ON!
• Girls sports mixed with high school = drama. Soccer and high school should not be together. They really shouldn’t. Soccer is meant to build a team, work together, and play. A team is there to build each other up, to get better. A team is reaching toward the same goal, to get better, AS A TEAM. Yeah, work hard for yourself but don’t go around thinking you’re hot stuff if you boss people around. That’s not a team, that’s not even leadership. Talking about how bad someone sucks does not make you better. No it doesn’t. It doesn’t make you look good. It makes you look like a bad sport infac which is the LAST thing from a good sport. Instead, You encourage, construct, and love. That’s what soccer is intended for. Not selfish ambitions.

Boys; Gosh, I could go on about flaws guys have. A LONG list it would be. I’m not gonna go into detail on this because it would take me days. But here’s a few ‘helpful hints’ for guys…

• Text her first.
• Flowers, Yes.
• Offer to drive
• Make her feel special.
• Don’t provide empty statements.
• NEVER talk about your ex in a positive way.
• NEVER reminisce about a girl in your past to a girl in your present. 
• Make an effort.
• Don’t lie.
• Tell her what’s going on.
• Tell her the little things. 
• Talk, Listen, and know when to do what.
• Surprises.
• Make her a priority.
• Ask her to do things she wants.
• Get close with her family.
• Be a genuine romantic.
• Open the door for her.
• Never stop doing any of this once you can call her yours. 

And on that note, I’m going to journal..