Girls; They do what ever they will to bring attention to themselves. I now remember why I only have a SELECT few of friends who are girls.
- Why would you go out of your way to contact your ex-boyfriends family? Close all ties. That’s what you do. Especially if you have a boyfriend AND your ex HAS a girlfriend. If not, you haven’t totally moved on. You don’t continue to make an impression on them. No, YOU MOVE ON!
- Girls sports mixed with high school = drama. Soccer and high school should not be together. They really shouldn’t. Soccer is meant to build a team, work together, and play. A team is there to build each other up, to get better. A team is reaching toward the same goal, to get better, AS A TEAM. Yeah, work hard for yourself but don’t go around thinking you’re hot stuff if you boss people around. That’s not a team, that’s not even leadership. Talking about how bad someone sucks does not make you better. No it doesn’t. It doesn’t make you look good. It makes you look like a bad sport infac which is the LAST thing from a good sport. Instead, You encourage, construct, and love. That’s what soccer is intended for. Not selfish ambitions.
Boys; Gosh, I could go on about flaws guys have. A LONG list it would be. I’m not gonna go into detail on this because it would take me days. But here’s a few ‘helpful hints’ for guys…
- Text her first.
- Flowers, Yes.
- Offer to drive
- Make her feel special.
- Don’t provide empty statements.
- NEVER talk about your ex in a positive way.
- NEVER reminisce about a girl in your past to a girl in your present.
- Make an effort.
- Don’t lie.
- Tell her what’s going on.
- Tell her the little things.
- Talk, Listen, and know when to do what.
- Surprises.
- Make her a priority.
- Ask her to do things she wants.
- Get close with her family.
- Be a genuine romantic.
- Open the door for her.
- Never stop doing any of this once you can call her yours.
And on that note, I’m going to journal..
